“What is love?”
How can we know? Do we know what love looks like?
I see faces of love. I know what the Bible tells me love is,
But what about love between a man and a woman?
Should it look and feel different from the love of the Bible,
Or does it just manifest itself in a different form?
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Love binds together in perfect unity,
Compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.
Love is these things and so much more.
It protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.
It rejoices with the truth.
The only love I can be sure of is this kind of love.
I feel it from God; I know this now. I trust this.
I feel it from my parents, my sister, my family.
I feel it from my Christian community, my friends.
I know that people of this world will let me down.
I know I’ll be hurt and that’s a result of our sin.
Only on the other side of heaven will I truly know what love is.
So the question the children ask is valid.
It’s not just some childhood question of innocence.
They want to know and recognize the Father’s love.
They want to see it in their lives.
I want to see it too. I want to experience it fully.
Outside of God’s love, outside of what he’s told me and shown me,
I don’t know love.
I can’t know it, and I don’t think it will be as great.
God promises great things for those who love him.
His love for us saved our souls.
This poem was penned August 30, 2004, after returning from my mission trip to Nairobi, Kenya. My team was asked to give a purity lesson to the children of the Kibera slum. At first, I thought they were a little young for the topic, but then I came to learn that their culture was very different from my own.
Many of the children there, at very young ages, would be violated by a relative or married off to support the family. AIDS ran rampant in their community, so there was also a need for them to learn about protecting themselves and waiting to have sex, if it was in their power.
Seemingly naively, one of the children asked me what love was. I soon realized that this child had never known love. She learned about it in church, but no one had ever shown her love. She truly didn’t know.
At the time, I was also struggling to understand what love was, and so this poem was born.
Have you ever questioned what true love is? What answers have you found, if any?
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What precious little faces. You just want to love them all, but out of sight out of mind. That is why it is important to go and witness to them what God’s love is and how to receive it.
Yes. It was a really hard thing to do though, because it took me a while to realize she wasn’t just asking a Sunday-school type question, but that she really had no idea what love was. I tried to explain (and show her through my actions), but I knew that her home life didn’t lend itself to really understanding God’s love.